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Girls.... I failed very badly on my No Junk Food Challenge :( It was way too hard! (that's what she said) sorry I had to! ;) haha but really though, I just don't have the self disipline to do that. So, instead I'm going to do something different! I decided that each week I am going to have a weekly goal! So, here it is!

Goal of the Week:

Focus on improving myself.

• Work Out
• Eat Healthy
• Wear Nice Clothes
• Go Tanning
• Do a Facial
• Get My Nails Done
• Fix My Hair Nicely in the Mornings
• Wear Make-Up
• Get Enough Sleep
• Drink a Lot of Water
• Pray More
• Say Kind Words
• Give More Compliments
• Resist the Urge to Gossip or Say Mean Things
• Give 100% to Everything I Do

Quote: Spend so much time on the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

Thought: This week I am going to focus on improving myself inside and out! I want to look my best and also act my best. I am going to spend all my energy this week on trying to fulfill my goal and become a better person.

xoxo
♥whitney

No Junk Food!!!

Hey :)

Soooo I'm going to do a no junk food challenge! If you would like to join me...here's the foods that are not allowed!!

• chocolate
• candy
• biscuits or cookies
• cake, donuts, or muffins
• pastries
• white bread
• chips
• fast food
• nutella, peanut butter, or other naughty spreads
• ice cream

This challenge lasts for 21 days, but I would like to implement it into my life as a regular habit. I eat waaayyy too much of this stuff and it's really starting to take a toll on my body, I feel sluggish, unhealthy, and I'm starting to have body image issues hah. I think this challenge is a great way to get back on track to the healthy lifestyle I used to live!

I'm going to have a reward for myself, just for a little extra motivation! ;) If I can make it all the way through this challenge, I'm going to buy the Urban Decay Naked2 palette, which I've been wanting since it came out! :))

I'll keep ya'll updated on how I'm doing with this, and if you want to join in just comment and we'll go through it together and help each other stay focused! :)

xoxo
♥whitney

Valentine's Day....

Well, as I'm sure you all know, today is Valentine's Day...for those of you in relationships WHOOHOO flowers, candy, teddy bears, kisses, hugs, professing your extreme amounts of love for each other...yep lucky you♥ haha for those of you not in a relationship this is pretty much Single Person Awareness Day haha I feel for you!! Soo right now we're gonna have story time then I'll get to a point ;) haha

MY STORYY! :D

Okay, so last year was the BEST Valentine's Day ever! I got candy and a teddy bear from a guy that had a crush on me aannnddd I got a bigger teddy bear and chocolates and a note saying he'll love me forever and ever from the boy I was (and still am) totally in love with! Pretty great right?! ;) haha I thought so! So then comes this year...I get nothing..WAIT that's not true, I got a Reeces heart from my bff but that's not really the same haha. So while every other girl in school is carrying around all the huge heart covered stuff that her boyfriend got her I'm just there like dang wish I could go back to last year! hah

Soooo point of this story....always secure a boy so you won't feel like a loner on Valentine's Day! haha just kidding just kidding!! This doesn't really have a point....I'll just make one up =D never take for granted the love you get. This day really overemphasizes spreading and expressing love, but really you should tell people that you love them on a regular basis! Go out of your way to show a little love to someone every day, it doesn't have to be getting them a life-size teddy bear, just hold the door open, help them on their homework, give a smile and kind word, just something as simple as that can brighten someone's day!

Now, get out there and SPREAD THE LOOOVVEE! :))

xoxo
♥whitney

PLAYERS!

Hey there!

Soo players are something that many girls deal with at some point. The smooth guy that always has the perfect thing to say, he knows exactly how and when to do things, he plays with your head and twists your emotions, gets your wrapped around his finger and you fall totally in love with him, then he dissapears. Sound familier?? Yeah I thought so! Here's a few tips on how to play with a player. :)

First off you need to know the basics:

• He's used to getting what he wants, when he wants it.
• You are not the girl that's changing him so don't think that. (He will only change if he wants to, he will not change for you.)
• He is always trying for better, players never settle and they want to upgrade every chance they get.
• He knows you have feelings, but guess what! He doesn't care about them, all he cares about is getting in your pants.

That being said here's the tips:

• You're unattainable?...yeah he's gonna go after that. Hard.
• Flirt a little bit in texts and in person but when he asks you to hang out make an excuse, key idea here: DO NOT be a big flirt!! You can only flirt a little so he knows you are slightly interested but when you don't wanna hang out it will drive him CRAZYYY!
• Text him that you have a question and when he asks what it is, don't reply. This will keep you on his mind all night and give him a good excuse to talk to you the next day! ;) BUT only do this once, maybe twice, but anymore than that and he's just going to get really annoyed with it and not care anymore. ALSO make sure you actually have a question or you're gonna have alot of explaining to do haha :)
• Ignore, ignore, ignore. When you see him in the halls do not look at him. At all. Make him be the one to come over and say hi or text you first.
• If you do go out with him, don't go very far, just a kiss or make out sesh but all of your clothes should say ON. This will deffinatly make him wanna take you out again!

Well there's my advice on how to get a player, you can use this to get with him orrr just play him ;) haha! Goodluck :)

xoxo
♥whitney

The thing most people go through at some time or another..it's hard, really hard, even if you're doing it for all the right reasons...it still hurts to break up with someone or get broken up with! Here's some tips to make it a little more bearable..
  
If you're breaking up with them:

• do it really nicely
• give them the real reason you're breaking with them (they can't fix themselves if you don't give them anything to work with)
• have some respect, don't do it in a text..I'm begging here. If they were good enough for you to spend a portion of your life with them, then they deserve a phone call in the least

After the break up:

• give yourself time to get over them, spend an afternoon to yourself watching movies and eating junk food!
• talk it out with your girls, they are there for you! They'll listen and help you out a loott!
• let it go, don't hash it out in your mind over and over
• don't try to be friends right away, give it some time. If you still have any feelings for them, then it's too soon to try and be friends again, wait a little longer
• move on, get involved with something you enjoy doing, pick up a new hobby, join a team or club, do things that improve you!

These are some of things I try to do after a break up! Hope this helps ya'll out♥

Love youuuu♥

xoxo
♥whitney

Forever & a Day

WOW! It has been soooooo long since I've last been on here! #rediculous! I haven't had internet at my house for the past couple months because of remodeling! I miss writing on here!! Well I'll just tell you about my day hahah :)
Sooo I went Prom dress shopping today! I found the dress of my dreams! It's teal and GORGEOUS! I am forever in love♥♥ haha! This is the first time I've gone Prom dress shopping (considering I'm a freshman! lol) but OMG that store was CRAAAZZYYY haha there were dresses and people everywhere! Holy free holy that was insane! But it was soooo fun! I would do it again tomorrow! Haha :) I had such a great time! Now I can not wait until Prom gets here! Only 2 1/2 months! :))

Checklist:

• go tanning!! (I'm a WHIIIITTEEE girl hahah)
• whiten teeth (I like my teeth white, not my skin) ;)
• get nails done (bring on the gel!) ;)
• get hair done (I need colored, cut, and practice rounds for the big day)
• figure out my make up! (don't wanna look cray-cray!)
• get waxed (I don't like being a hairy monster) :/
• buy shoes (probably need those!) hah!
• buy accessories (gotta look glam) ;)
• get camera fixed (that beotch broke on me!) >:/
• get fit! (I don't wanna be a fattyyyy!) c(:
• find a date! (haha jk I have one!) :)

Well, this is where I'm at right now! Hah! Hopefully I can get some stuff done pretty soon! Good luck to all of ya'll with your Prom shopping/planning! I hope your magical night goes just as planned ;)

xoxo
♥whitney