Soo players are something that many girls deal with at some point. The smooth guy that always has the perfect thing to say, he knows exactly how and when to do things, he plays with your head and twists your emotions, gets your wrapped around his finger and you fall totally in love with him, then he dissapears. Sound familier?? Yeah I thought so! Here's a few tips on how to play with a player. :)
First off you need to know the basics:
- He's used to getting what he wants, when he wants it.
- You are not the girl that's changing him so don't think that. (He will only change if he wants to, he will not change for you.)
- He is always trying for better, players never settle and they want to upgrade every chance they get.
- He knows you have feelings, but guess what! He doesn't care about them, all he cares about is getting in your pants.
- You're unattainable?...yeah he's gonna go after that. Hard.
- Flirt a little bit in texts and in person but when he asks you to hang out make an excuse, key idea here: DO NOT be a big flirt!! You can only flirt a little so he knows you are slightly interested but when you don't wanna hang out it will drive him CRAZYYY!
- Text him that you have a question and when he asks what it is, don't reply. This will keep you on his mind all night and give him a good excuse to talk to you the next day! ;) BUT only do this once, maybe twice, but anymore than that and he's just going to get really annoyed with it and not care anymore. ALSO make sure you actually have a question or you're gonna have alot of explaining to do haha :)
- Ignore, ignore, ignore. When you see him in the halls do not look at him. At all. Make him be the one to come over and say hi or text you first.
- If you do go out with him, don't go very far, just a kiss or make out sesh but all of your clothes should say ON. This will deffinatly make him wanna take you out again!
Well there's my advice on how to get a player, you can use this to get with him orrr just play him ;) haha! Goodluck :)
xoxo
♥whitney
Hey darlin! I'm loving your posts; really motivating. But keep the profanity and such down! : )
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Thank you! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure what you mean by keep the profanity down, I don't find any in here...hahah but yeah I'll check out your blog! :)
xoxo
♥whitney